Day 01: Ten things you want to say to ten different people right now.
Day 02: Nine things about yourself.
Day 03: Eight ways to win your heart.
Day 04: Seven things that cross your mind a lot.
Day 05: Six things you wish you’d never done.
Day 06: Five people who mean a lot (in no order whatsoever)
Day 07: Four turn offs.
Day 08: Three turn ons.
Day 09: Two smileys that describe your life right now.
Day 10: One confession.
1. Don't cheat on me. That's a good start.
2. You don't need to splash out on extravagant gifts or occasions - though it's nice - because you could spent that time way more meaningfully. Sometimes your company for a coffee, film, a quiet drink or a pizza night in and talking shows a greater level of affection.
3. If you say you think or feel something, mean it and act on it. Don't say you feel one way and then act in a way that completely and utterly contradicts it. Also if you can say one thing and another the next day, I know you can't have possibly meant it. i.e. I value sincerity and honestly, even though the truth sometimes leaves a bitter taste. I will respect you way more for telling me an unpalatable truth than fabricating a lovely lie or masking the truth from me under guises.
4. As well as being able to make comfortable conversation with me, be able to make comfortable silence. Sometimes silence speaks the loudest.
5. Be able to make me smile or laugh, even when I'm really down. If you're really good at this, you can do it just by making a face or a noise or giving me a look or saying a simple word. You know how to cheer me up instantly; but also how to make me almost wet myself laughing within an instant.
6. Be able to read my little signals, distinguish them and act on them appropriately: I'm fine (I'm actually fine); I'm fine (No, I'm not, I want to talk about it); I'm fine (No, I most definitely am not - ask me about it and I will tear your head off); If I shiver at night, cuddle me tighter; If I nuzzle you, I feel a bit meh and would like a kiss and a tighter hug. Those sorts of things? The fact someone learns to recognise the silly little things and care about them enough to take them into account is a massive thing for me.
7. Be a good, compassionate, empathetic and generally nice person. Vegetarian would ideally fit into this category.
8. If you really want me, keep me, even when I get defensively upset and try to push you away. Hold on to what you want. If you do this one, you win my heart.
9ish. I know it's only supposed to be 8. But... If you and do all of those 8 win my heart and throw it away and stand on it. Don't expect to get it back.
Wow. I think that one was the hardest to do.
xxx
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